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07Apr
An Overdue Apology to Women
Blogs / Articles
Part One of a Three-Part Series

While the topic of this blog focuses on women, I am writing it to be read by both genders.

Why?

Because, as we all know, the woman in a marriage typically outlives her husband.  It is also true that, in general, a single woman has an extended longevity compared to a single man.
(Source: Vanguard, “Plan for a Long Retirement

Statistics reveal that 70% of the time a widow chooses a new financial advisor within weeks of her husband’s passing.  (Source: CNBC, “For Some Widows, Breaking up with an Advisor is Easy to Do”, Ilana Polyak, 10/11/14).

Why does this happen?  Among others, here are some of the reasons given:

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22Nov
Resonate – A Special Place for Widows
Unique Process for Widows

qtq80-UCmIECResonate has a special place in our practice for widows.

I have been amazed at the resilience I see many widows demonstrate as they create a new vision for their life going forward.

Yet we also know that being widowed can be a very scary, sad and difficult space.

Just as we create “Diminished Capacity Directives” as guidelines to use during the aging process while everyone is as healthy and clear-headed as possible, I think it makes sense to also have the “What If I Am Widowed” plan in place on a pre-need basis.

Why is this important?  Because 700,000-800,000 women lose their husbands each year and will be widowed for an average of 14 years.
(Source: “Advice for Widows” Charest Company LLP)

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07Sep
Divorced / Widowed Women’s Feelings
Retirement

The feelings associated with divorce often mirror those associated with the death of a spouse because life as she knew it is ending.

Among others, these feelings may include anger, regret, relief, inadequacy, self-doubt, sadness and fear.  It always creates stress.

Resonate understands the parallels in the journey walked by women who are divorced and those who are widowed.

Many of the financial questions are the same:

  • “What will I be able to afford?”
  • “Will my money last as long as I do?”
  • “Can I stay where I am living?”
  • “Do I have enough money to continue to travel and see my children and grandchildren?”
  • “We always said that we would take care of one another; what happens now?”
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